Hello my lovely readers!
In this second installment of Author Spotlight, I want to introduce you to the author whose book shaped me as a young Black woman in her early 20s navigating the journalism industry.
Say hello to Kim McLarin!
Kim McLarin is a former staff writer for The New York Times, The Philadelphia Inquirer and The Associated Press. She graduated with a bachelor's degree from Duke University and is also a graduate of Phillips Exeter Academy.I absolutely loved her first novel Taming it Down because I saw so much of myself in it as a young Black journalist. I was similar to the main character Hope in many ways with having to navigate dealing with the distrust I would receive from the Black community and proving myself to my white colleagues. Just like Hope, I reached the point in my career where I found myself and could be free...after many missteps along the way.
Jerry was a good man who worked with troubled kids and lived his life open to relationships with people of different races. And yet I couldn’t be with him, even though, unlike my ex, he did seem willing to grapple with race. But he was nearly 50 and his grappling apparently was just beginning, whereas mine started at 5. For nearly 50 years he’d lived in America and yet it surprised him that race might even be an issue for us. There was an innocence in this, an innocence born of being white. An innocence I could neither share nor abide.
I found this piece to be very insightful regarding interracial relationships and their dynamics. It's what I've always enjoyed about McLarin's writing, she puts the uncomfortable topics that readers do not want to have a conversation about in your face and forces you to talk about them.
Yet rarely do white feminists take up the greater cause of black female inequity. White women are among the most vocal and vociferous opponents of affirmative action, despite being equal, if not greater, beneficiaries.
This is what black women know: When push comes to shove, white women choose race over gender: Every. Single. Time.
This, of course, drew the ire from numerous people (particularly white) in the comments, which was expected. The question and conversation that Black women have always faced and talked about (among their peers), but something white people have never had to confront.
I really loved this book and can't wait to re-read it in the new stage of my life.
I write because I have to and because I cannot imagine not doing so. Writing is how I make sense of the world and how I live in a world that so very often makes no sense at all. It’s no exaggeration to say that writing has saved my life....the bottom line is that I write because that’s who I am: a writer. I write because God intended me to.
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